Dahil sa ito na ang nakagawian kong gawin tuwing Linggo ng umaga....
takbo...lakad...takbo... hanggang sa pinawisan at para matunaw ang taba na nasa aking katawan.. (aw! hehehe)Sunday Night
I was reading a book the night before Monday when I got a SMS message from my best friend (from CEBU CITY). She asked me if she could disturb me and well because she is my friend since high school days. I chatted with her.
As we all know, marriage is a lifetime commitment. It is a union of two complete individuals (male & female) and they become one. You don’t get married to be complete.
In our conversation I quickly asked her, “What is your opinion about marriage? Why it is important?”
She texted me back with, “Yeah, un na nga… dapat talaga magpakasal ang dalawang taong nagmamahalan, para maging isa sila in the eyes of God, people and papel.”
“It is a lifetime commitment, right? Then, why some couple didn’t reach that?”
“Maybe dey r not really meant 4 each other, some jst forced their selves due to some reasons.” She said, “For me if u really love each other, you must to consider your selves as one.”
“And what do you think are the reasons?”
She replied, “hmm… 2 the family frm embrasment, money, and some has no choice coz der stomach is bulging. U know, frend, dat lyftime commitment is between you and ur partner.”
“Ok. But why they still continue to get married, if they are aware that it won’t work (their marriage)?”
“Yeah, ryt! Kya nga ako I prefer na wag magmadali…ayoko namang magpatali habang buhay knowing that mag-susuffer ako. I can raise my child well without him.” She said. “naunsa ka friend? Magmenyo na ka?”
“Toink! Gusto nimo may mapag-usap tang duha, di ba?”
“ahh… kaingon kog mag-menyo na ka! Kalain jud nimo…kung dili ko nimo sultihan.” She asked, “Ikaw, para sa imo kailangan ba talagang magpakasal?”
I have no exact answer but my reply was, “I have an answer for that, it’s a YES and a NO! YES, if I (we) think that we are destine to be as one, why not? NO, if I (we) know that it won’t work. Because we both know that we had no similarities and di kami magkasundo sa ibang bagay… magpapakasal kami for the baby? But in the end, maghihiwalay din di ba? Why sacrifice ourselves kung di kami parehong masaya? Di ba?”
“You’re right! Kya ako, observe lang… “she asked, “yon naman pala e, kung di kayo ready then why hiyaan ninyo na mabuntis?”
“Accidentally! Hindi sinasadya…”
“sabagay… haaayy! Pero pano ang baby?”
“Nasa kanila na yon kung anong plan nila di ba?” I said, “kaya nga para sa kin, ayaw ko muna…. Siguro pag talagang ready na ako! Saka kailangan mapaghanda yan ng husto. Kasi nga lifetime commitment yan di ba?”
“Tama jud ka friend! “ she said, “swerteha niya no?”
“Basta, ikaw! Think wisely…. “
”Yes! Thank you friend. Good night!“
“Ok. Good night!”
Ang pag-aasawa nga naman ay isang malaking responsibilities, dapat ay handa kayo pareho ng partner mo. Hindi ito kanin na pwede mong iluwa kung ayaw mo na. At hindi rin ito laruan na pwede mong itapon kung nagsasawa ka na.